Confident As F* – Shadow work for better bedroom confidence & boundaries


February 13


06:00 pm - 07:30 pm

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Coach Alex Ray

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Online Event

Boost your bedroom confidence, ask for what you want and say no to what you don’t want in this 90-minute online workshop.

Are you ready to have the play of your fantasies?
Then you’re in the right place.

Have you ever been in the middle of ‘it’ when suddenly it starts to hurt?
But your insecurity kicks in so you don’t speak up to ask for a new position, ruining what could have been an amazing experience?

Or do you keep saying yes to other people’s fantasies when you really mean no?
Then you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, and mad that you didn’t have your own back?

If so, this is THE shame slaying, shadow work breakthrough you’ve been wishing for.

Gain the confidence to…
– say no.
– ask for what you want
– and have your own back.

This workshop has enabled others like you to:

ask out a friend on a date,
talk in detail with partners about anxiety,
– share their darkest turn-ons,
– and speak up for their own pleasure even in the moment without killing the mood.

What to expect

In this 90-minute, interactive workshop you’ll learn my shadow work brain hack to turn your anxiety into confidence.

You’ll get to ask any question.

And we’ll work on real scenarios.


“I’ve been battling this beast called shame for my whole life. I gained some serious breakthrough material tonight.”
– Molly

“I can’t believe I was able to take this terrible feeling and not let it take control of me.”
– Matt

“I connected the dots!! Now I learned WHAT I feel ashamed of and WHY.”
– Tamara

“I am psyched at the concept of flipping the script on my shame and turning it into something I can embrace and enjoy!!!”
– Adam

“I don’t need shame to force myself to improve. This was awesome.”
– Craig

About the presenter

Hi, I’m Coach Alex Ray aka The Queer Confidence Coach.

I pride myself on creating safe, supportive spaces where you can explore your insecurities and leave with more confidence.

I have been where you are… and I know what it takes to speak up for what you do and do not want.

Not so long ago I was terrified to speak up.
The examples I gave earlier were my real life experiences.
Now I confidently speak up, and I have helped many others do the same.


This workshop is 18+ only.

This is a mental health, confidence building workshop. We will discuss sexual topics but the workshop will NOT be sexual in nature. Nudity and sexual advances towards the presenter or other members is prohibited and will result in immediate dismissal without a refund.

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